Why don’t men usually share their problems with partners?
This may be totally a preposterous question. One of the girls from my friend list asked me that question. But yeah, it’s true in most cases. Girls talk and share a lot about their personal lives, family problems, almost all of office incidences, and things in school. But when it comes to boys, when the girl says ‘whats wrong’, the most probable answer would be ‘nothing’, even if the girl indubitably knows something is very wrong somewhere. If the girl keep on asking, the boy may give a short snapshot, but generally will not go to a full and profound discussion.
Girls probably won’t know the answer. So, I m answering that question here, in my blog, for my friend.
Reasons: (Let’s see how many I can list)
1. We usually don’t want girls to think about our problems.
2. We don’t like drama like most of the girls.
3. We don’t want to get the sissy label of being sensitive.
4. We think sharing our deep feelings would lead to become losers in front of girls.
5. We want to act like hard-core players and like things don’t bother us. But feelings in our deep down hearts is another story. 
6. When we share things, it’s like sharing with the whole world. Girl’s bestfriends will know all that at the next moment.
7. We think we are able enough to solve our own problems.
Hope this is enough 
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ok so true. add this buddy. We dont try to get attention of others. kekeke… cheeers
I actually thought you were a girl before hehe sorry
But yeah all of your points are definitely true.. ^-^
hm for most guys that would be true. but for me its not true. i always share my feelings share whats going on with my partner. If your partner loves you she wont label you as a sissy =).
@maail; Grysko is surely a male name..
@anon234; sure there are exceptions and ya there are sissies out there
I guess ur wrong in the last two points,
not every gal share every single thing wt her best friend or whoever specially private matters concerning their partners.
problems should be shared n solved. If guys cnt share with their partners tell it someone wise rather than just a friend, who knows yu may get a solution o a gud advice.
ye, i believe too not every single problem must be shared wt de partner, bt i think problms shd b solve, if nt de gal will be utterly cnfused. things shd be discussed,talked and sorted out if both partners want the relationship to b successful.
hehehe..nice post..
aslu wen boys dnt share their problems some times its irritating..
Actually, i’d rather label emotion-touting men as ‘pussies’ ’stead of sissies. See it even rhymes
Really, there’s nothing more annoying than a grown up man OR ___woman___ crying their heart out- besides, didn’t you hear?
Bottling your emotions can fare you better [ http://www.livescience.com/health/080603-bottle-emotions.html ]
I might be meeting a different breed of men, but boy are they infused with a need to be dramatic, and totally filmy.. makes me a tad bit nauseous and I get accused of not being feminine enough since I dont do my share of acting and dramatization..apparently I am too mannish!!!
erm…i realli did think u were a gurl :S :S..keke..kool post ^_ ^
i even thought u were a gurl. sorry!
oh really i-kko. I still remember u calling me dude in my last post.
hehe add this point too;
*Cause they are findi
Joke.
It’s natural for men not to share feelings, but that’s not the case when in a close relationship – they do. Women tend to be talking more on feelings even not in a close relationship.
But.
If you knew more than half of the Maldivian population are sick in the head. This surrounding plus close intermarriage has woven faulty dna. And above all most of them are ‘control freaks’
Watch out!!
well nice one.i always thought why boys are like dat without sharin..n now got the answer.bt boys seem kinda selfish
maybe cos of dat most boys are high tempered as everything s kept in dere heart heheh .
just my point of view.
dont worry abt the girl thing dude. i went thru the same thing. hehe. and abt the post i have to say i agree wth most of the points. i personally dont on 3 and 5. but i strongly stress on 6 and 7. 6 and 7 were sooo very true.
lol…hehh..interesting post u got there…cudnt help bt comment..
6. When we share things, it’s like sharing with the whole world. Girl’s bestfriends will know all that at the next moment.
not exactly tru…u knw..v dnt go on telling everything to our best friends…and therfore the whole wrld doesnt knw
2. We don’t like drama like most of the girls.
so u asuming most girls chase drama or sumthing?..wrng again..i’d avoid drama if i can! =P
7. We think we are able enough to solve our own problems
Agrees wid on that! u think u are able to solve ur own
problems… ;p
4. We think sharing our deep feelings would lead to become losers in front of girls.
wrng thinking guy.sharing ur ”deep” feelings wudnt make u luk like a looser…
u guys just hav a too big of an ego to hav the need to be always erm…how do i put this…erm yeh..fyl that u hav to always impress girls.. ;P
btw…really liked ur blog..=)
and i knew u were a guy!
oh my photo is here…
nice blog bdw