What makes a girl a badi? or a whore? I wonder why girls get that ‘label’ anyway. The most common meaning of it could be ‘faseyhain setuvaa kudhin’. May be! well, thats what i get when someone says that word.
Unlike other countries, most of the so called badins in Maldives don’t really act as prostitutes. They don’t usually sell their bodies for sex. However I must not mention the fact that there are girls in maldives whose total concern is sex. But, most of the girls get in to the relationships before they do ‘things’ with their partners. Those ‘things’ are to be kept as a secret between the two of them. From the moment, when the boy (usually) or girl starts talking about it to others, the girl in the picture starts getting the ‘badi’ label. Thats what i think.
Most girls become ‘badi’ after they are being dumped out of a serious relationship. Especially from a relationship in which the girl got a high degree of sexual pleasure. They turn to ‘Only Sex’ mode after they loose hope and confidence of a serious relationships.
What I am trying to say here is there would be a man’s hand in someway behind girls getting the ‘badi’ label. What you say?
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