It’s a fact that we lose friends in the course of life. Girlfriends and boyfriends as well. But is it really worth to leave ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends all alone on road?
I believe we should have a good relationship with the Ex’s. Those are the people we once shared our lives sharing secrets. Every relationship that a man or woman once creates does remain part of their lives forever. It is simply impossible to get rid off people who have been once close to you.
People may think that an Ex would create problem in social life and also can bring misfortune for your new life partner. But, in reality it is just the opposite. Definitely, he/she will understand that someone else has taken his/her position in life. If your ex really loves you, he/she would not come to interfere, but would definitely help you to prosper in life.
You can find hundreds of examples where x-friends are in touch with each other despite one or both being in new relationships. In most of the cases, the conversation may be friendly or intimate, but it is not the same as between real bf/gf talk. It would be more like a chit-chat with an old friend. So I find no reason, why its wrong to go out and spare sometimes with the Exs.
But it becomes challenging when our ex come to you to carry on a secret relationship, which your new partner may not be aware of. That’s the situation where we should be aware of and sometimes it is the situation where we loose control and commit a mistake.
Your new partner may have made a way into your soul, but that doesn’t mean that you will completely forget your old flame. New partner may seem diamond to your heart, but to wear that diamond you need gold, which surely replicates the idea of your Ex.
What you say? How do you manage the relationship with ex?
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